Posts tagged ‘Love’

April 5, 2011

Im Fine Without You.

Video Via: Dailymotion

This is my current anthem. I have not listened to a song my Hinder in forever. I then stumbled across this song along my playlist, and now I play it non stop. The lyrics say it all. It is exactly where I am right now in life.

Without you, I live it up a little more every day.
Without you, I’m seeing myself so differently.
I didn’t wanna believe it then, but it all worked out in the end.
When I watched you walk away, well, I never thought I’d say
I’m fine without you

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March 9, 2011

I Wish I Had All The Answers.

Photo Via: Beleza

Life is never easy, it wasn’t meant to be. At times when it does get hard, I tend to wish I had the answers to all of my problems. Regardless of the problems I might be faced with-school, love, or life-I always find myself hoping to be able to see ahead to the end. What fun would that be though? To know all of the answers throughout life. That is the beauty that life holds, you never know what will come next. Life always keeps you guessing what comes next. Even at times when you think you might know the outcome, it will shock you what truly does happen.

Some changes have been recently made in my life. I am moving on with the rest of my life, moving on for me, moving on for the better. I have let go of moments of my pasts, even though it was not what I wanted. It never ended up how I thought it would, but things change, and people change, and I know better than to stay around for false hopes. Nothing sums up my life at the moment better than the lyrics to this song.

“I know there’s a blue horizon somewhere up ahead, just waiting for me. Getting there means leaving things behind; sometimes life’s so bitter sweet. I guess it’s gonna have to hurt. I guess I’m gonna have to cry, and let go of some things I’ve loved to get to the other side. I guess it’s gonna break me down, like falling when you try to fly. It’s sad, but sometimes moving on with the rest of your life starts with goodbye. Time heals the wounds that you feel somehow, right now.”

I am walking away from my past, and I am now on an adventure to find myself again. The ones who truly care will always be there for you, every step of the way, and will always remain. I am a strong girl, I always have been. I have been through a lot more than most, and I have been through a lot less than most. I can get through this crazy thing called life on my own, I need no one to hold my hand.

Sometimes moving on with the rest of your life starts with goodbye.

February 13, 2011

Second Guessing.

Photo Via: T@ylor_Tot

Is it possible to know right when you meet the person that you will spend the rest of your life with them? Or, is that feeling something that has to be worked on and wanted. By that I mean, you and your significant other learn from one another, work out your differences, accept one another’s flaws, and grow together. Most of all, you must love one another unconditionally. No matter the circumstances you will know you will always love them in return, and you will receive the same gratifying feeling back. True love, is something you must strive for. It takes work, hard work, and you can’t back out from it. You know that no matter how hard things get or how rocky the road might be ahead of you, you both decide to face things and work it out together. At that moment, you know that no matter what you will always be there for that person, regardless of the situation. They have become such a part of you, that if you ever were separated, you would be incomplete. You must fight for love to last, because no one said it would be easy.

Now my question still remains, can you fall in love with a person that has the potential to take your hand in marriage without the fight? Can you know without working at it, every single day? That is for you to answer because I truly do not know.

When that moment comes, that feeling of knowing you can not picture your life without that person, how are you sure? Have you ever had a second thought of thinking that they might not truly be the one? Maybe, it is the feeling of cold feet. There is that scared thought in the back of the mind, afraid of that huge step of commitment. Is that a normal feeling to have, second guessing thoughts?

February 9, 2011

Love Is A Temporary Madness.

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As one young and in love, and doing the whole long distance thing, have you ever looked over your life and wonder if this was where you should be? Then that led you to think, “will I look back on this part of my life years from now and be satisfied, or will I regret my actions and decisions.” We all hope that we don’t wake up one day and realize we made a mistake, no one wants that. I find myself questioning myself, my actions, my decisions, my life more now than I have ever before in my life. I just wish someone could give me the answer sheet to my future and I can just know where I will be 10-20 years from now.

For instance, I have been happily with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I am not one for relationships, at all, but he makes me want to settle down. I see him in my past, present, and future. He has become such a huge part of my life now, and not just him, his family too. I have know him, and his family for years now, and we were always close, but no where near to how we are now. He is the only person that I can see myself spending my entire life with, because quite frankly, I can not see him not in my life.

However, us being so young, I am no where ready to make that commitment. I often say that we are ahead of ourselves, our time. By that I mean, he is everything that I could hope in another, but why did I have to find him now? If we could of just had everything fall into place when we were both out of school and established, that would be perfect, but of course life does not ever work that way.

There is a quote that I read quite often. Basically I read it when I start questioning the strength of myself within my relationship. Typically people say, “well you should know if you want to be with that person.” but then I bet that person has never withstood a long distance relationship. It tests ones true self, and every day I prove to myself how strong I actually am. It takes a lot out of you everyday, and always leaves you questioning. As soon as I start to feel like I am losing grip of myself I read this, and it clears up any unanswered questions:

“Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.”
-St. Augustine

February 4, 2011

They Say Love Is All About Timing.

Video Via: Train Homepage

I hope that put a smile on your face. Don’t you love Train? Love is all about timing, the precise, perfect timing. I thought that this video was appropriate for the holiday built around love coming up. Now you can finish your day with a lovely tune stuck in your head.

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